"Half of our marriages end in
divorce." No they do not. The real numbers are in and it seems that little
more than half of half end in divorce.
As a homeschool dad, I often refer to the
“smell test” when reviewing math assignments with my sons. ‘Okay, if
you multiply a big number by another big number, the answer is not going to be a
small number, right?’
Well, perhaps we can do the same here.
How many married people do you know? Okay, now how many divorced?
This is a difficult thing to get our minds around, but try. Think about
the sheer staggering number of married adults you know. It is far easier
to list the unmarried adults than the married. Now think about the
divorces. Do they even begin to approach half?
Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn are Christian
marriage counselors, popular conference speakers, and family enrichment authors.
This month Shaunti released The Good News About Marriage reporting the
findings of an 8-year research project reviewing the statistical data on
marriage and divorce in America. Her conclusions are shattering many of
our most common conjugal clichés.
Among her more noteworthy findings were:
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The divorce rate in America has never even been
close to half. While the actual divorce rate is impossible to establish,
[the Census Bureau stopped trying in 1996] realistic estimates put the societal
divorce rate as low as 27% with almost every source reporting a decline in
divorces for the last 30 years!