This happens largely through the ritualized aspect of life. I often say that it starts with having meals together regularly. That’s the place where most orientation in life begins. All of you who’ve raised children know that this is the beginning of civilization – teaching your children to eat and not be barbarians.
[At this point, DW mentioned establishing a set pattern within his home of dinner at 6, then cleanup followed by dessert at 7 and the reading of Scripture, catechism, or literature and discussion, sometimes for hours.]